Good Sports

Amy & Stephanie Greene

Ages 15 & 13

   

This is written to soccer parents from their kids, but I think it really applies to all parents whose kids are playing sports.

Hi, all you soccer parents (and grandparents) out there! Wondering what’s the right way to encourage your kids on the field? Here are some tips from the players’ point of view.

1. We like it when you cheer, but don’t’ go overboard. No horns, no whistles, no crazy shouting. It’s distracting.

2. Please try no to coach us while we play. That’s the coach’s job. We trust our coach. You should too!

3. We totally know every mistake we make. You don’t need to remind us after the game or point out what we can do to improve.

4. Please, please don’t yell at the refs. Embarrassing!

5. Don’t yell at the other team, even if you think they‘re playing rough. It doesn’t help.

6. Most of all, be positive. Have fun and let us have fun too! When you love and support us, it makes everything better.

Guideposts, March 2010